Broken Bridges

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The bridge is weak. Made of mainly wood, weeds. The strongest part of it being a few threads of jute rope. It was build a year and a half ago. The current is very strong. The flow of the water is obviously in one direction. Thus making one side of the bridge at the receiving end, more vulnerable than the other side.

It will sustain itself. For wood is strong. But for how long is the question. While I sit at the bank and see the bridge go through the trauma every day, I ask myself if I should maybe call an engineer, ask him how long the bridge would last. Should we break this one on purpose and build a new one. Or should we ask people to take a detour.

While I also think…let time be the engineer. Let it decide if the bridge stays intact. The bridge is weak…very weak…one leg almost broken. Seems like time has made its decision. And it’s only making the process unnecessarily slow.

What will happen the day time implements its decision. The bridge breaks. Hurting everybody who has traveled through the bridge, hurting everyone who built it, or was in any way attached to it.

But we fail to realize, time the destroyer…is the healer, the constructor too. As time passes…we forget about the old bridge. The engineer will be called for. A plan for a new stronger bridge will be laid down. While the debris of the old bridge has been swept away with the flow-strong flow of water.

We will use the new, concrete, strong bridge everyday to travel. And maybe once in a while think about the old bridge, and how it was build.

But the fact would be that we have moved on….all we had to do was wait for time to do its magic.

Love

Ankita

Dedicated to all my friends who are going to a tough phase.

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9 Comments

devil
Jun 29, 2009 at 10:21 pm

smart


 
Dale Bhagwagar
Jun 29, 2009 at 10:31 pm

Sahir Ludhianvi’s lyrics for ‘Kala Pathar’ went “Ek raasta hai zindagi, jo tham gaye toh kuch nahin. Yeh kadam kisi mukaam pe, jo jam gaye toh kuch nahin.” So make new bridges.


 
admin
Jun 29, 2009 at 10:35 pm

Thanks for ur advice dale


 
rahul
Jun 29, 2009 at 10:59 pm

awesome metaphor for life…and really nice blog ..keep it up!!


 
Prats
Jun 30, 2009 at 12:38 am

OMG… You in such a serious mood!!!!

Nicely written…. My take is similar to the Fastrack Punchline- “MOVE ON”


 
Chhaya
Jun 30, 2009 at 12:40 am

How long would a bridge made of Jute strings last? Its better if it breaks .. And yes, time will heal and create something afresh..

liked the metaphors used here.. especially Jute strings. Relationships are not that different from bridges


 
Mitesh Ashar
Jun 30, 2009 at 10:00 pm

Some of us think holding on makes us stronger, but sometimes it is letting go.
- Herman Hesse


 
Reema
Jul 1, 2009 at 9:01 am

Time heals everything…Time gilds with gold the iron links of pain.


 
Neha Kapoor
Jul 3, 2009 at 5:13 am

How wonderfully n smartly written!


 

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